2019 - To be achieved

新年的心愿清单

工作，财务，健康，成长，娱乐，感情: 每一方面：自己投入了多少（时间和金钱)

1.  Less sugar and carbo.
2.  Smile more.
3.  Be soft spoken.
4.  Calm & Cool.  Speak calmly and softly to the kids!
5.  Work standing up.
6.  Replace bad word with "Oh, Geez!"
7.  想要的越少，束缚就越少，做一个极简生活的践行者。
8.  临场反应能力慢，创意不足是我的缺点，逻辑性强，规划性强，自律和学习能力是我的优点。
9.  Read and summarize learning
10.  钱多事少离家近的工作 
11.  不去抱怨，寻找解决问题的方式，解决问题
12.  远离一切负面语言和能量
13.  Ability to make far-sighted choice(s). Made big decisions by discussing them twice: once while drunk, once while sober.  (^_^)   Decide which option would be most appealing today, later this year, and decades from now; which would be preferable emotionally, financially, and morally; and which is better for you, your family, and society.  Seeking out diverse perspectives on the choice, challenging your assumptions, making an explicit effort to map the variables”—constituted “a step up” from the pro-and-con lists.  First ask ourselves what we value, then seek to maximize that value.  A decision is essentially a value-maximizing equation.  Plug in your values, and the right choice pops out.  Vegemite Principle: if you’ve never tasted Vegemite, then neither a description of what it’s like (black, gooey, vegetal) nor experience with other spreads (peanut butter, marmalade, Nutella) will suffice to tell you whether you’d like it.  Before having children, you may enjoy clubbing, skydiving, and LSD; you might find fulfillment in careerism, travel, cooking, or CrossFit; you may simply relish your freedom to do what you want. Having children will deprive you of these joys. And yet, as a parent, you may not miss them. You may actually prefer changing diapers, wrangling onesies, and watching “Frozen.” These activities may sound like torture to the childless version of yourself, but the parental version may find them illuminated by love, and so redeemed. You may end up becoming a different person—a parent. The problem is that you can’t really know, in advance, what “being a parent” is like. For Paul, there’s something thrilling about this quandary. Why should today’s values determine tomorrow’s? In her 2014 book, “Transformative Experience,” she suggests that living “authentically” requires occasionally leaving your old self behind “to create and discover a new self.” Part of being alive is awaiting the “revelation” of “who you’ll become.”

14.  Life decisions touch on the question of who we aspire to become.  There are some vague sense of its value that's hard to express, which you hope that some future version of yourself might properly grasp.

15.  HIIT = High Intensity Interval Training